The title of this blog post might strike you as somewhat weird because a lot of guys assume that once you find milfs, you hook up. That's assuming too much. Seriously. If you're having a tough time finding milfs and banging them, it's because you think along those lines.
Make no mistake about it, figuring out how to find milfs is very different from getting your dick into their pussies. These are two totally different things. Unfortunately, a lot of guys are lazy. A lot of guys think that just because they achieved one, another action, the one that they really prefer, would naturally flow out of it. This is bullshit. This is an entitlement mentality and it destroys guys over and over again.
I've seen it happen a million times. They go to a dance club that caters to young guys looking for older women and they see all these hot milfs there. And they are all excited because, hey, they figured out how to find milfs.
Congratulations. Pat yourself on the back, but don't get too excited. This is actually where the hard work begins. This is where you will be tested because it's one thing to find milfs, it's another to bang them.
So the first thing that you need to do is to get rid of the entitlement mentality and just allow yourself to be in the moment. Look at the chicks, look at them in the eyes, smile, try to crack jokes, pay attention to what they have to say, actually care about what they have to say. In other words, make them the center of attention.
If you are able to do that and overcome your natural selfishness, then you increase the likelihood that you will get what you want. This really all boils down to one of the most classic ways of getting along with anybody. It doesn't matter where that person came from. It doesn't matter what that person's particular agenda is. None of that shit matters. What matters is the simple philosophy: to get what you want, you must first give other people what they want.
You have to give. So in this case, the women on MILFFIND.com crave attention. They want to be the center of the show. Give that to them. Once it shows that you're sincerely giving them your attention, then they'll start giving you attention and it may lead somewhere.
So focus on being in the moment and focus on actually stepping out of your comfort zone and being interested in somebody else sincerely for once.